Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marryin1) g. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking:


1.Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver?
考慮應該有小孩嗎,答案若"是"的話,未來主要由誰負責照顧小孩?

2.Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh?
有清楚對方的財務狀況,還有規劃及共同支出跟儲蓄的想法?

3.Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores?
有沒有曾討論過如何運作這個家庭,及這個家庭瑣瑣碎碎的事情,將來由誰管理?


4.Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental?
我們是否把自己的健康,無論是生理或心理的狀況,毫無保留的告訴對方?


5.Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?
另一半是否如自己期望,那麼深情又溫柔?

6.Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears?
倆人是否肯自在公開的討論"性需求","性嗜好"還有"性恐懼"呢?

7.Will there be a television in the bedroom?
將來睡房是否要有一台電視?

8.Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints?
倆人是否真心且互相傾聽,並真心誠意的思考對方的想法及抱怨?

9.Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education?
倆人是否了解彼此的宗教信仰及需求,是否討論過我們的孩子何時接受宗教或信仰的教育?

10.Do we like and respect each other’s friends?
倆人是否能喜歡並尊重彼此的朋友?

11.Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship?
倆人是否彼此尊敬彼此的父母,並且探討過對方的父母是否會干涉倆人的私生活?

12.What does my family do that annoys you?
我的家庭會有什麼原因會使你感到不悅或困擾?

13.Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage?
是不是還有某些事物,是你我還沒準備好,而面對婚姻時這些事物須放棄犧牲的呢?

14.If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move?
倆人其中一人有了就業機會,但上班卻離家庭很遠,我們是否會考慮要遷居?

15.Does each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?
倆人對對方婚姻的承諾是否充滿信心,並且這樣的承諾,無論遇到什麼阻礙挑戰,信心依然存在？

最後ㄧ題好像神父在問的
跟另一半在婚前好好討論呦～

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